Over the past several years, we’ve invested an enormous amount of time and energy understanding both the technology and the implications of the social media revolution. It’s not a static subject, and each new change, each new piece of technology that emerges requires constant attention. The implications seem to grow exponentially as well. But the more we learn, the more we adapt new tools into marketing plans we create, the more a few simple truths become self-evident.
What you are is infinitely more important than what you say. This truth has never been more important than it is today. The market free market has always been a noisy place. Social media has only turned up the volume. Never have people been more distracted, more put-upon. And the natural reaction is to tune out everything but that which is most essential to do our jobs and live our lives. Skepticism is also at an all-time high. People simply won’t believe what you say without proof. And the proof of who you are and what you can do for me is in your actions. The most stunning social media plan conceivable will fail utterly if there is no substance to your product, your service, your company. That’s not to say that social media and new technology aren’t important tools, tools that can help you effectively connect with both prospects and customers. Clearly they are. We just have to remember not to confuse the tools with what matters most.
Everyone’s favorite subject is me. I’ve said this around our office so many times, I’m sure my coworkers see it as a sign of early onset dementia. When you call on a prospect, they measure every word out of your mouth, every promise you make, every claim put down against one question—so why does that matter to me? If your entire presentation (in person, in media or online) doesn’t address this question, you cannot hope to win your prospects’ hearts and minds.
This is the least and most profound idea you’ll hear today. We all know these thoughts to be true. Like all the great verities, these simple truths don’t change with the passing of a few years or the invention of a few new tools and technology.
But then we all take this life for granted until a tragedy or a sudden illness reminds us exactly how precious and fragile each day is. Sometimes we just need to be reminded that, in the words of Goethe, one must be something before one can do anything.